ME: 47 SHE: 42 US: Together 4 1/2 years MARRIED: Aug 9, 2010 DIVORCED: April 8, 2011
My friends,
Here is a copy of the email I received from my ex-wife just a moment ago.
------------------ Michael,
I believe in order for me to be true to myself I need to be disconnected from you. Not forever just some time to really figure out what it us I need and want!! To be single not trying to start over with you again!
That means not meeting with you anytime soon even though that is real tempting as well you know how much I like to escape reality and be somewhere warmer and beach and fun!!
I want to be truly single go out with my friends maybe even on dates not that I'm ready for that right now but I want you too to date and see how things feel!
I still believe we aren't meant for each other are relationship took too much effort more than I think a relationship should take!
I'm gonna try to nap before I get the kids you can call me a little after 5 if you want I'll be driving to work.
I will always love you and care for you and you will always be one of my best friends!
Talk to you later maybe love your L----.
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I am at a loss right now. All I can see are the 3 words at the end "love your L----."
Do you have any suggestions for how I should respond?
Thank you beyond words for any words you might have to help me through this time.
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.
