Well he just called me to tell me of his IC. What he agreed with, what he disagreed with. Said counselor hit him pretty good today about if he is even thinking straight. Talked about reconciliation he said his heart isn't in it. Counselor said how do you even know you have OW. Take her out of the picture and who knows how good it could be. Give it six months. He of course didn't think too many people took her up on that. Talked alot about separation. Counselor isn't big on separation because risky (don't know if that is just what he is hearing). He said he really disagreed with her on that. He just doesn't see the risk. And I said, well people will ask why we're separated. Do you have an expectation that I'm going to cover for you? He said well a billboard would be overkill or an ad in the paper. I asked him "are you being sarcastic?" He said yes, and I said well why are you angry with that question. He said he wasn't.
Says he's going back to counseling. We will see. I just go on with GAL and getting back to my funny happy self.
T: 28 years M: 23 years D19 S15 OW Discovery: 3/6/11
