WAW tearing up our family part II

[ironMan]

I have been reading the boards ..... but I've been so busy, and I'm just in limbo so I haven't updated much.

OMW, yes .... she finally found a therapist that she liked. She has a boatload of issues from her childhood which she has until now refused to even think about. When she would act screwy, I'd remind her that this was probably due to some of those ... she ran away from them/me .... things would get quiet ... repeat as necessary.

Also, she felt the need to try to make therapists like her rather than using them to help her.

Funny you say it now though ..... I don't even know if she's still going. I don't ask. Not my problem.

Also, her going to counciling seemed to re-enforce that she shouldn't be married. That she had to live on her own two feet.

So, I'd say basically all of the therapy her and US went to actually was working against the marriage.