She calls you, and lets you know when he is at a gig. I see her trying?
Is she blowing smoke up your kilt?
Do you have good reason to belive she is?
Good reason?
Because outright accusing her of still contacting him without any proof, and you look like some paranoid control freak.
You know, there might be some times when she doesn't tell you he was at a gig, to avoid the obvious discomfort it creates in you and really probally because she doesn't want to deal with it.
I agree don't be naive, if she is out 6 hours past a gig, and has condom wrappers in her purse, don't bury your head in the sand.
But don't be insisting that the other guy is still around when she is trying to prove otherwsie.
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