Well, as far as GAL goes, I have started to reinvest time in hobbies that have been ignored for years. I have reconnected with friends that I haven't seen in a while. And, this may sound really bad, but I am truly enjoying the time to do my own thing without my W. I wasn't at first, I would sit at our house alone and wallow in my own self pity about how my W, F'd me, but not now. I do miss her, and I would like to start working on the sitch with her though. My goals are pretty simple. I want to become a happier person, I don't want a D, but have accepted it as a possibility, I've been trying to find ways to stop thinking about the sitch constantly. I would love advice from people who have had success with that. Even when I preoccupy myself in an activity (social or hobby), I have trouble getting it off my mind. Thinking about it constantly will not do anyone any good, I know that, but am having trouble putting it into practice.
