Originally Posted By: JustStunned
Anger like fear can be used to motivate yourself to something positive. This is what I try to do after I’ve decided enough “of dwelling on anger” is enough.

Being physically active helps me endorphins are great.
CC Skiing
Walking the dog
Yard work
Jogging, plan to, need shoes

An activity that requires precise steps, concentration and movement helps me.
Archery
Those Tai Chi tapes are beckoning

Beating the h*ll out of a drum head helps me.
Djembe

Meditation helps me.
The flame on our most recent unity candle helps my focus I take joy in the irony of using this candles flame for healing.

Prayer handing this sitch over to my deity helps me.

The forgiveness Islander talks about is a big hurdle for me, but I agree, and I think it is a step in letting go of the hurt.


You do archery, Djembe and Tai Chi, among other things? ...You're not a member of the Dos Equis "Most Interesting" club, are you?


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