She has mentioned in the past that she feels like a burden on me and she needs to be independant to find herself. I suspect her idea of independant includes living an unrestricted single lifestyle. .
Pretty much the WAW script.
I need my space from you so I can find myself AKA: I want to be able to persue other interests in my life and you are getting in my way. Don't you know it's difficult to see OM while your M?
The WAW has the mind set of a 17yo highschool girl. Very unsure of herself.
It is best to validate their feelings and offer no solution(fixing) their problems.
I gonna tell you it works. I have gone out with a few women. Each time they made an excuse of why they didn't want to go out with me again I agreed with them. I didn't give them reasons to go out with me, just agreed and said I understand. EVERYONE of them contacted me within 10 days, asking me to go out again. You can't argue with results.
It works. Validation, confidence.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
