The year of not my problem

[AJM]

DMIL, it only stops when you decide it stops. When you no longer listen. When you no longer pay attention.
In my state, the wedding ring is marital property. The engagement ring is hers because it was given prior to the union.

I hear what you're saying. My thoughts are actually along those lines. My thought is that I need to put this to an end regardless of her actions. The divorce is going to happen and I will be the one to initiate it if she doesn't beat me to it.

Her anger is incredible. Rage would be a better term. But that's ok. It's not me. I'm not angry. I'm not mad. I'm not defensive. I'm sleepy, but that's different

Going back and forth right now in email. She wants to take the kids to the therapist. When I asked for the information, she is evasive, but it does come from her lawyer and a "friend". I'm asking for his credentials and letting her know I'm concerned about it. She tells me I should be. Hmm... wonder what's next from her

This is becoming very boring more often than not. Very predictable to be honest:
Me: "hello"
Her: "screw you! <insert vile and slanderous things>
I'm the victim and my lawyer says so! You should bow down before me and grovel, you animal!"

I may be exaggerating just a smidgen...

peace,
AJ