Thanks gr8!
I think you just gave me the kick in the a$$ I needed.
I will go out with the kids, and it will be someplace fun where I can focus on them and not have a pity party.
When the W and I had a long R talk the other night I agreed with her that the current sitch wasn't working for either of us and it would be best if she moved out. She is looking for a job now (since unemployment ran out 2 weeks ago) and I expect she will wait until she has an income before she does it.


Me 46 W 43
M 17
S 14
D 11
ILYB 9/2010
EA began July/August 2010 ?
PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ?
I began DB in Jan 2011
I filed 7/12/11
Kids and I moved out 7/30/11
I'm in it for the kids and me.