bboom. you're too focused on what your W is doing.
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I'm trying not to dwell on it too much, but It's hard not to picture my W and OM sitting in the church together, having a good time at the reception together, and continuing to bond as they discuss their common marriage problems.
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I'll be at home with the kids all night trying not to think about it
Who says you have to stay ay home with the kids? Take the kids out and have some fun. Don't sob and dwell on your W. What are you doing to be attractive and exciting?
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I'm almost to the point where I really want her out of the house so I don't have to know what she is doing and when she comes home.
When you get to the that point you should tell her: this situation isn't working for me, I feel it's best for you to find another place to live.
Facing your fears will be attractive.
or you could stay at home and think about your W having a great time with OM while you're having a pity party for yourself. NOT
So, what do you plan to do with the kids?
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