The kids, do what you need to do to protect them...
If that means getting temporary custody, getting them into counseling, then do it.
That needs to be a priority.
They are going to be pawns in this as long as you continue to allow it by trying not to rock the boat...
Over here, we are HUGE on the kids...
That is one of those non-negotiable things...
You have to be a parent and do what is best for them, regardless of the effect it may have on your MLCer...
I would talk to your lawyer about this ASAP...
Beyond that, I want to ask you to slow down a bit...
You are I knowing everyone here, and I'm not sure if you are really absorbing the information you are receiving...
We have been there...
We understand what you are going through...
You may think we are stupid and have no clue to the urgency of the whole situation, that we never had all sorts of garbage spewed at us, and what not...
Believe me, if you search these archives, there is nothing that you have posted so far, that hasn't been posted on these boards already...
You have a wealth of experience at your fingertips...
Learn from our mistakes...
Instead of making them yourself...
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
