confused bolt

[Bolt]

I see a whole lot of negativity, projection, justification and spew but I don't see a whole lot written about how you handled it. Did you try to rationalize with her, perhaps defend yourself as well?

I'm not out to bust your balls here, but you need to remember that there really isn't any way your going to get through to her like you'd normally think you could. You are to blame regardless of how insane this seems, agreed?

I did try to rationalize it and was very respectful. I did defend myself to - obviously to no avail.

I do agree with you here. I will be blamed for the sun not shining today. I understand that. She knows what she did was wrong and has to throw it on me.

The two things I'm doing wrong are listening to it and then letting it bother me.

Both of which I am stopping now.



thanks again, man.


It's so hard to hear but good to know that this is a pattern.