Bolt...

You can get off the coaster anytime you like.....

DB101 actually...


Stop the relationship talks ( no matter WHO starts them )
Stop going down cheese-less tunnels
Stop defending yourself


Back away from her...

You aren't gonna have a rational conversation with an irrational person...

Protect yourself legally and financially...

An MLCer can bleed a bank account dry in no time, watch your finances CLOSELY...

DOCUMENT EVERYTHING that is happening with her...

Your interactions, the OM being around your daughters , the financial stuff, the anger...

Leave the divorce discussions off of the table for now...

Talk to your lawyer about a temporary custody order.

Look Bolt, you have another man, spending the night in a house, how many miles from you ?

After...two ? weeks of being separated ?

And I'm sure it is affecting them.

Their whole world has been turned on it's nose for them. They need stability in their lives now.

Focus on that, take your focus off of everything else until THAT is resolved...


Next....


Yes, you were "duped" into moving..

It is what it is now...

You can choose to be a victim, or you can choose to be a Phoenix...

How YOU handle it, is something that your girls are gonna be watching. What are you going to choose to show them ?

Bolt, what happened in your sitch, happened quickly....

You got here, and barely started realizing what DBing was about, then it appeared that the tides turned, and you started a different direction...

MLC is a different animal than you have ever seen before...

Get to know it....

Your bat-chitt crazy MLCer is spinning right now....no reason for both of you to spin....