I am now at that point. I have been very respectful of her and do try to explain that I have nothing to do with what is going on. Of course, as you said, she believes none of it. Now I'm the untrusting one...it's a TON of projection here.
BUT I do not want to cut her off financially bc of the kids. I don't want to do anything that would jeopardize them. If it were just her and I, I would have cut it all off. My atty even said to but that would definitely hurt my kids.
I will take your advice and step away. I can't take this abuse anymore - especially the unjustified stuff.
The only reason that I am trying to be respectable is bc she has my kids and is trying to prevent me from seeing them. Since we aren't separated yet, she has possession of them and I can't do anything about it.
And the last thing I want is to be playing tug of war with them. I'm afraid she's already scarring them enough. I will not add to that.
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
