Which bomb do you think you got? The one that has a full plan to D attached? Or is your W just checking to see that you're still on board with her?
The D word has not been mentioned by W since last Dec., just before I left. She was very hurt & angry back then but now seems content just to stay separated.
She is in no doubt that I am 'still on board', I've told her often enough over the last 4 months but that is where I think I have been going wrong - too much pressure, too soon.
we are still on very good terms but I got a bit of a kick in the gut yesterday ( my birthday ) when she didn't send a card or text / email to wish me happy birthday. I could understand if we were completely estranged but we aren't. What is going on in her head right now??
I am not going to rise to the bait though, and will validate any reason that she gives for not aknowledging my B'day for the first time in 25yrs.
FF999
Me 48 W 49 D19, S17, D14 Together 25yr, Married 22yr Me checked-out July 10, back Sept 10 W checked out Nov 10 Separated Dec 10 ILYBNILWY 2nd Apr 11 We're finished + D bomb 17th Apr 11
