Marriage of 30 years incinerated out of the blue

[Smitty1038]

Thank you Kaffe Diem


Not sure if the other post I wrote went so writing you again..

Will heed your advice

Have gotten the ILYBINILWY and last marriage counseling session was painful as all I got was I am done and that she felt it was over.

Regarding GAl

I am working out and plan to get in the best shape I can as well. Have lost close to 30 lbs and am being diligent
Also plan to get back into Scuba diving and will see about becoming an instructor...been a few years but I have done a lot of this in my past.

Also spending time with the kids as they are devastated. My daughter is close by and I see her and her husband a few nights a week. Also call my son everyday and we are all going camping over easter.

I am careful as to what I say...they need support right now as well.

I will never give up on my marriage. I will not give into despair.

Thanks Kaffe