I'm really having trouble accepting this. Everyone says he seems so unhappy so why does he push on with the D?
It IS very hard to accept. I've read on this board that sometimes they actually have to go through with things. Then again, he hasn't filed YET. I wouldn't give up until you are ready. Divorce or no divorce.
Maybe going to California is a good thing. It'll give you a chance to stall for a while. Stall stall stall. That's what I'm doing. My W takes more stuff out of the garage everytime she is here. Still says she wants a divorce, but I'm not giving up.
If you want your M, I wouldn't lose hope just yet. Keep praying okay?
I hope you have a good time in California and get to spend some quality time with your brother.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
