Ok so she came back about 3 weeks ago, it was hard but she finally did. We have had about 2 or 3 minor fights and one major one. Other than that it has been good, she is till pushing this whole open marriage thing, which I try to just nod my head and blow off. When she came back we made love twice within 3 days, it seemed that the whole problem was over, she seemed happy I was happy. Then she asked me to give her some time because of her cycle. I agreed and left her alone for about 5 days. She herself playfully told me to wait for her. After 2 days when it was over I decided to start initiating again, she completely blew me off and it led to some minor arguments. I backslid and pushed too hard I know... A day or two later she seemed very upset, and started talking about the open marriage again. Since then she will bring up about every 2-3 days, mostly on date night This actually made me really defensive the first time and we had a major fight. I tried staying calm, but I guess she could smell my annoyance. She brought it up again, the next night while going out I super controlled myself and she kept "innocently bringing it up". I kept my cool and reiterated my discomfort with it, while supporting her self discovery.
This actually made me really defensive the first time and we had a major fight. I tried staying calm, but I guess she could smell my annoyance. She brought it up again, the next night while going out I super controlled myself and she kept "innocently bringing it up". I kept my cool and reiterated my discomfort with it, while supporting her self discovery.
