I think there is always hope, so don't give up.
Follow what the book says about lovingly detaching and continue to do your 180's for yourself.

Personally, I find it odd that she is choosing to leave now for your past infidelity 16 years ago. That is a heck of a long time to hold a grudge.


"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack."
¤Formerly DelinquentGurl¤