Welcome Croppin to the forum. So sorry about you and your husband. This is a great place to get encouragement, advice, etc, be they DR-related or not. Don't worry, once your thread gains traction, the responses will keep coming.

M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112