My W and I are S. She has maintained that she doesn't "love" me and that she doesn't "feel" like being married anymore. Total nonsense from someone who didn't actually "work" for the M any how. For now, it's an escape for her where she doesn't want to face reality.
Your H has been showing emotion on some level, so that means that he's still in it to a certain degree. That's why I believe yours can be salvaged.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.