The goal is to get your spouse back.

However...

Not at ANY cost.

Letting them back into a relationship, where there aren't any boundaries, you can't talk about what happened and where you shoulder all the blame, and they have no remorse for poor choices?

Ummm...

That's fear driving the LBS.
Hoping things get better, isn't a good plan to lay foundations upon.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet