II don't understand the part about talking to you 9 months after the baby is born? What does that mean? He doesn't know what he feels right now?
I think what he means is that he did not plan on going into how he feels about us until I was done being pregnant. He has made that really clear. That it was not his intention for all of this to blow up while I was pregnant. Which of course I retorted, "how would this be any easier with a newborn?". I mean, I understand that he doesn't want to interfere with her prenatal development, but it's not like this talk would have been any easier down the road. Plus, given his poor choices lately, who knows what he would have been doing if I let this play out for another year.
