Starsky, I did confront my W about the EA. I asked when it started, at what point she realized she had crossed a boundary between what is appropriate for a M woman, and if she felt guilt. She explained that this OM is someone she had known as a kid, briefly dated as a teen, then lost track of for 20 years. She "reconnected" with him about a year ago on Facebook as he was going through a marriage break-up. He is in the divorce process now and according to my W "his W is a psycho". I'm fairly sure my W and OM have had discussions about a potential future together, but they are waiting for the dust to settle on their current sitches before they move forward.
Me 46 W 43 M 17 S 14 D 11 ILYB 9/2010 EA began July/August 2010 ? PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ? I began DB in Jan 2011 I filed 7/12/11 Kids and I moved out 7/30/11 I'm in it for the kids and me.
