Originally Posted By: Country_Song
@TG and Karma,
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My understanding here is that Denver is much further a long in the process. He spent months thinking about these things, making changes, etc while his W was not. She has a lot of catching up to do.

Again, the points are valid, but to me, it still just comes down to patience. It will take her time to start seeing things differently. Just as it took Denever time to get to where he is. I'm just not sure focusing on her remorse, or lack there of, is a positive use of energy. She will either see it or she won't. But either way, it will take time.


I think Country is wise beyond his post count.



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