She went to great lengths to explain how her feelings for me have changed over the last few years and she hasn't been in love with me for a while, and just can't go on like this any more. I validated her feelings, told her that she needed to find her own way to happiness, and that I wouldn't stand in her way. I also told her that I would help her move and support her as much as I could financially. I told her since this was her decision, she'd need to own it, and I wasn't going to finance her running away from our family. She would need to get a full-time, and we'd have to make mutual arrangements for caring for the children, and she'd have to pull her own weight. But she understands that we don't have much money since she is unemployed and most of the money will need to keep the house and feed the kids.
