Boom, I am just getting caught up on your sitch. There are many similarities in yours to mine. It sounds to me like you are doing a lot of the right things. Unfortunately, I think in some regards you are doing what you have to do, and some of these things you are doing are very hard.

Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive


Get ahead of her in the thought process by thinking your M is over. The old one is in reality.
Make her feel like she is the one being dumped.



I will say this has entered my thought patterns on more than one occasion.


BITS
Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26