Boom, I am just getting caught up on your sitch. There are many similarities in yours to mine. It sounds to me like you are doing a lot of the right things. Unfortunately, I think in some regards you are doing what you have to do, and some of these things you are doing are very hard.
Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive
Get ahead of her in the thought process by thinking your M is over. The old one is in reality. Make her feel like she is the one being dumped.
I will say this has entered my thought patterns on more than one occasion.