Because deceit is what they do! Even if you did know all these things, what difference would it make? Would you feel better? No. I think what we all wonder is "how didn't I know?" and we think if we know when it started it will somehow prevent it from happening to us again in the future...but it won't. Every time you open your heart to another you take a risk and we either will do so again or we won't. Move on Shelby, it's hard but you'll be OK!
