I also told her that I would help her move and support her as much as I could financially. But she understands that we don't have much money since she is unemployed and most of the money will need to keep the house and feed the kids.
let her problems be her problems! Stop rescuing her.
These are the consequences of her actions.
Make a stand, take care of the kids and their needs and let your W wade in her own cesspool.
If you want to help out, pack all her belongings and leave them at the front door.
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