Sandi, no offense taken. Not sure if I'm understanding right -- did you mean that my wife saying she's annoyed is actually meaning disgusted and disrespect? And by coached, do you mean she's trying to convince herself (using words that are not her own) to divorce me?
Anyway, I'll be heading out to the courthouse soon. I've filled out the paperwork such that I've left the "Respondent requests dissolution of marriage" and "...due to the following reasons" sections blank, because I am not the one REQUESTING the divorce.