Oh totally forgot to mention the funniest bit of all. When she came home after the argument and I'd packed my bags and gone to a friends house, she had 5 mins to get ready to go out to a show with her Mum and the cat stood and peed up her leg at the door lol.
I had to stop myself laughing at that in the middle of our serious chat! Little beggar, but he's got timing!
Reality is that which, if you don't believe in it, doesn't go away.
