W and I just had a nice long chat. She is probably going to move in with her mother and leave me and the kids at home. She Has talked with a mediator or two as suggested by her friends and she doesn't want much support from me. She wants the kids to stay here so the schooling isn't disrupted. The topic of the om came up(I couldn't leave it alone) and w tells me they are just friends, but she has feelings for him that may grow over time. They just talk on the phone, but they have bumped into each other a few times while out "but nothing has happened". I didn't press because I didn't want to know. She went to great lengths to explain how her feelings for me have changed over the last few years and she hasn't been in love with me for a while, and just can't go on like this any more. I validated her feelings, told her that she needed to find her own way to happiness, and that I wouldn't stand in her way. I also told her that I would help her move and support her as much as I could financially. But she understands that we don't have much money since she is unemployed and most of the money will need to keep the house and feed the kids.
Me 46 W 43 M 17 S 14 D 11 ILYB 9/2010 EA began July/August 2010 ? PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ? I began DB in Jan 2011 I filed 7/12/11 Kids and I moved out 7/30/11 I'm in it for the kids and me.
