What to do next

[JustStunned]

Thanks Karma, I appreciate the prayers and well wishes.

Journaling: There is a realtor coming by to look the property over on Friday. I’m trying to obtain fair market value and get a list of repairs/improvements to make the house marketable. I am the one living here and it makes sense for me to speak with the realtor. At least the first one to learn what to expect.

I want to have W contact one and do the same. I may have a distorted view of this, but it seems to me doing all of the work associated with liquidating assets enables W to eat cake. I think W needs to work for the D she wants so much.

Given that the D has not busted yet, and doesn’t appear likely to I need to firm up goals to come out of this with as little damage as possible. I need to think about goals and plans for the next couple of days. Much depends on the fair market value of the house.

I have archery leagues tomorrow night. If the opportunity presents itself I may mention this drama and see what kind of support I get. This group is beginning to accept me for me and they deserve to know why I am sometimes distracted and introspective. I am still debating outing this drama at work.