I will Survive.

[Shelby]

Thanks cat03 !!

I haven't posted much. Just with the occasional question or concern.
Well here I go again. We have been separated for 9 months now. I try to go by the last resort technique. As much as possible. He comes to see the girls about once a week and he still will occasionally invite me along. I went twice before Christmas but have since declined each time. It was so hard on me, we would go out behave like a happily little family, but then of course we weren't and he would go to his own place at the end of the night.

All along these past 9 months he would tell me that there was no girlfriend. He was just doing a " life change ". Of course I always thought there had to be another woman but I guess the thought that there wasn't gave me false hope.
And that's where I now. Last week he went to Vegas for a " work convention"
And was staying 3 extra days on his own. Oh sure!!! I wasn't born yesterday. I am not FB friends with him but our daughters are and today I was being nosey and yep he has a bunch of fun Vegas pics up and one with a Girl's arms around his shoulders. They are obviously together.

I did a little more quick Internet research finding her on his friends list, finding her name and funding out she lives 1 block away from his new place. Oh by the way he moved over an hour away from me and his daughters.

So now what ? Do I sit back and continue to do nothing. I have been giving him all this space, being pleasant and nice whenever he visits. Just sitting back and letting him go.

Seeing him in this picture has really shook me up. I know I needed to see it but it still hurts. I am not sure if I should say something about it. We aren't divorced yet, our daughters can see it. Should I stop being so easy going, let him know what an idiot he is ?

Thank you, Shelby.

Him on facebook.