Thanks Islander. This is why I love this board so much. It is so difficult for us to see so many things in our own situations that are so obvious to us in others' situations. When I post here, I get nuggets of gold from almost everyone who responds.

"The only thing that is not working is being impatient."

"listening is probably more important than talking right now."

"you have a new R with your W, and her OM is nothing more than a former boyfriend that you care nothing about"

ALL nuggets of gold Islander. Thanks.

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Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce