Thanks Islander. This is why I love this board so much. It is so difficult for us to see so many things in our own situations that are so obvious to us in others' situations. When I post here, I get nuggets of gold from almost everyone who responds.
"The only thing that is not working is being impatient."
"listening is probably more important than talking right now."
"you have a new R with your W, and her OM is nothing more than a former boyfriend that you care nothing about"
ALL nuggets of gold Islander. Thanks.
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce