LOL, that really made me giggle. Before I would have never thought about going for what is mine. But you know, I don't know what the future holds and I have to be prepared for me and my D. I worked our whole married life except for the last six years. I quit my job when H left back in 2005 because D needed me and was having some major behavioral issues. She didn't uderstand what was going on with her being disabled. I deserve what the court says I can get and the kicker is that they are going to garnish his wages instead of me having to worry about him paying me.