Originally Posted By: cat04
Originally Posted By: Denver_2010


Have I forgiven my W? I can... I think that I have...


I see you trying to excuse it...by continuing to place the blame on him and her vulnerable state.

Stop making excuses for her. Excuses, make it easier to not feel the anger that we all have when we are betrayed.

The bottom line, it happened.

Forgive that. Not the reason you think she did it.


You just busted me. Thanks. You are right. I'm willing and able to forgive her IF I can justify it.

The fact that she doesn't agree with my opinion of OM, ie, that he is a vulture who preyed on her while she was in a vulnerable state of mind, is making it hard for me to complete the process of forgiveness... if that makes sense.

I need to forgive the fact that it happened... the 'why' does not matter.

LOL... on the lawyer snub!

Thanks Cat.

Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce