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Like if he has no morales or values how can he instill them in SS?


Your H is a teenager right now. Believe me, I've seen the same thing with my W.

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I feel so bad that SS's senior year is on the back burner to H's mlc and the OW.


I know exactly how you feel. My S18 is a senior this year as well. He isn't even getting a yearbook. W used to take care of all of that stuff. This year it "slipped her mind" because well....she wasn't her mentally even before she moved out. She checked out emotionally months before she left. I read somewhere once that this is so much easier on the person in MLC because they checked out a long time ago. We are just now dealing with it.

Tad


Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13