So H is still getting mail at our old house. I keep giving him one of his credit card bills and Friday he got an e-bay purchase here. This is the 4th e-bay item to come to me. The first was a watch he bought OW for her birthday. You'd think he'd change his paypal/e-bay address...
I sent him a text Friday to tell him he has mail here and that I was home if he wanted to stop by. He replied that he was going out of town and would get it today. I really didn't want to know he was going out of town. It turns out he spent the weekend with OW who lives 30 miles away. What really gets me is that he left SS 18 who is a senior in high school alone for the weekend. He has a girlfriend and most likely they shacked up at H's house for the weekend. Something he never would have done or allowed before mlc. It's like he's totally checked out as a parent too. Not surprising for mlc but so difficult for me to understand. Like if he has no morales or values how can he instill them in SS?
I feel so bad that SS's senior year is on the back burner to H's mlc and the OW.
