Ahhhh, the old pull back. It is part of the WAW's playbook.
Dont really know what to tell you Denver. The only thing I am sure of is the PATIENCE thing but let me tell you, when my W came back I was as patient as a monk however, this worked against me in my sitch because she was seeing the OM, unbeknowst to me.
I would have been patient for a long time but that was just buying her time. I dont know for what but she kept sleeping with him while not having to deal with me. I think she would have been happy doing this for a long time. She had the excitement of the OM and the security and money from me.
The integrity or lack there of part she seemed to be Ok with.
I could have been patient a very long time as long as there were positive steps.
See if she will sleep with you eventually and see if there is love in her eyes and in her hug. You know what to look for I think Now.
My W, could not pull that off with me. I did not feel the love at all.
All the best Denver.
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PS, remeber John Elway didnt win the Superbowl very quickly but it seemed sweet when he finally did.
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