Update...

I think that I should follow last night's update with this even though it is short...

W texted me this morning some feelings that she has been having towards SS's school and their treatment of him. I responded by telling her that we could talk about it later when she and I both had time.

SS is suspended from school today. I went over to the place that they are staying and picked him up for some lunch. We went and picked out birthday cards for W and then had some lunch. W's birthday is tomorrow.

W called a little while after I dropped SS off. We talked about her thoughts on the school situation. She asked me if I would call the vice principal and talk to him since I was not there for the meeting on Friday when SS got into trouble.

W and I have exchanged a few more text messages since.

No talk about our conversation last night. I don't expect that there will be for a while.

Thanks everyone for your words of encouragement and advice after I posted last night. I'm not going to alter my strategy or behavior much going forward. I'm just going to refocus on the things that have gotten me to this point, ie, patience and being the better man...

BITS
Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce