My attorney said that a lot of divorces don't go through because people do the $500 thing only to find out there's not enough info in them to get the deal done. That's why she said she'd read everything over to make sure everything is covered. I'm an accountant and know about everything we have asset-wise so there's no getting anything by me.

I don't want the divorce but it would be nice to have him pay off his half of our joint debt so I can pay off my half and be done with it. I will talk to her about delays.


M: 43 H: 42
T: 8 M: 6
SS: 20, 14
Bomb dropped: 12/17/10
OW: 31 12/10
Separated: 1/30/11
Divorced 7/15/11
H proposed to OW 7/7/11