I'll add the details to my sig but for now here are some basics. I am 27 she is 25. We will make 4 years in 2 weeks and seven of knowing each other in aug. No kids, neither wants any. To my knowledge there has never been a PA or EA. Although W desires a PA. I take the fact it hasn't happened yet as a good sign, and pray it never does. As for my sitch I can say for certain she is bi. I guess the question in her mind is whether she can be exclusive to me.
As for myself I have resolved to model the marriage I want and despite having her consent will not go looking outside the marriage. I know this throws her off since I imagine she could use me finding other people as a justification to do what she may be reluctant to do. Either way I'm not supposed to mind read and I KNOW I myself can't do it.
As of two weeks ago she moved back (i credit DB) we have had some pretty bad fights, but also some great times. I'll post the details later. She herself in so many ways is still unsure. So I am doing all the DBing I can. Thank You MWD!!!
