Yes I can disconnect and not care. But if I knew she was talking to OM after all this, then I would tell her it's over and MEAN IT. Next day we would be on a plane home and headed to the end. I know there are many here patient with OM but I am not. I an handle her MLC but continued OM contact if I knew for sure would be the end.
As far as local projects... I do not speak the local language well enough to do what you suggest but I may ask around at work, that could be a good outlet. Thanks for the suggestion. I may ask the single old lady next door in my broken language. She has always said hi and I would love to do something, anything with my hands even if I have ti buy tools here. Even thought about doing projects around our house but then I would still be at home with her.