looking back at some of the advice I was give over the past feww months and this struck a note with me.
I was talking about how the WAS leaves and expects everything to go smoothly with the searation and D proceeding. I was venting about their "creed" of how things should be.
Then an old friend posted this as the Creed of the LBS:
LBS creed - I can handle anything thrown my way. I am responsible for my actions, thoughts and happiness. I will respect my WAS and let their problems be their problems. I am fun, confident, interesting and capable. I am attractive. I am interested in others well being. I choose to thrive regardless of my circumstance. I am a warrior.
I hope others can learn from this too. It has helped me.
Cheers, gr8
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
Me 46 W 43 M 17 S 14 D 11 ILYB 9/2010 EA began July/August 2010 ? PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ? I began DB in Jan 2011 I filed 7/12/11 Kids and I moved out 7/30/11 I'm in it for the kids and me.
Create a file to links of meaning posts and save them on your computer for reference. This way you can look back and reflect on old(sometimes forgotten advice)that helped.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
This has made its way to my document storing pearls of wisdom. Eventually it will make it to my FB wall, but only if I am close to done and no longer care if W finds this site.
Thank You
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
LBS creed - I can handle anything thrown my way. I am responsible for my actions, thoughts and happiness. I will respect my WAS and let their problems be their problems. I am fun, confident, interesting and capable. I am attractive. I am interested in others well being. I choose to thrive regardless of my circumstance. I am a warrior.
This is actually something I posted on another site about saving your marriage. This is hypocritical that this gets left up. Any other copying of text from another site got banned that I posted. Be consistent.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
