The hiding the phone example shows me how much your sitch reminds me of my own. My W has been doing that for almost a year, plus she has a password lock on it and would probably freak out If I ever touched it. It's silly because I pay the phone bill and can see who she is calling/texting. I even confronted her about it months ago when I showed her the bill and she told me who she was calling. I think she hides it out of habit and guilt. I have decided (with the help of this forum) that my W is going to call/text/facebook whoever & whenever she wants and there is not a thing I can do about it. I have made an effort to detach and not care so I can focus on my GAL. If you constantly worry about who she is calling it will drive you nuts, believe me.
Me 46 W 43 M 17 S 14 D 11 ILYB 9/2010 EA began July/August 2010 ? PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ? I began DB in Jan 2011 I filed 7/12/11 Kids and I moved out 7/30/11 I'm in it for the kids and me.
