The Roller Coaster Keeps on Rolling

[Denver_2010]

"do you want to go?" ... I responded, "do you want me to go?" ... W said 'sure!' ... I then said, "just want to make sure that you want me to go. I feel paranoid about smothering you."

Had to pull this part out. Try to be more decisive. This kind of wishy-washy temperature taking kills attraction. She wouldn't ask you if she didnt want you to. Take it at face value and just accept the invitation. You don't smother a woman by just being with her, you smother her with emotional dependency, constantly checking her temperature, and general passive agressiveness/approval seeking behavior.

Thanks Spellfire. You are absolutely correct. That's why I included that part of that conversation. I knew that I had messed up as soon as I had the conversation. That is how my entire week has gone and I KNOW that I am slipping in the confident and decisive part of things. It is so unlike me. I think that was my point with my last post. The insecurity of the R is beginning to really wear on me. I know that I shouldn't expect to be made to feel secure by W right now, but that doesn't make it any easier.

Thanks for checking in. I appreciate it.

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Denver