"do you want to go?" ... I responded, "do you want me to go?" ... W said 'sure!' ... I then said, "just want to make sure that you want me to go. I feel paranoid about smothering you."
Had to pull this part out. Try to be more decisive. This kind of wishy-washy temperature taking kills attraction. She wouldn't ask you if she didnt want you to. Take it at face value and just accept the invitation. You don't smother a woman by just being with her, you smother her with emotional dependency, constantly checking her temperature, and general passive agressiveness/approval seeking behavior.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
