From reading your long post some things stood out to me.
Is your W still in contact with OM?
Sounds as if your W is feeling what my W did when we started to date again. They are very confused.
You need to pull back and regroup.
Start acting more mysterious around her. Women like excitement and mystery.
Sounds to me as if she isn't attracted to out right now, you're classified as a friend. Not a bad thing, but you want more right now.
so what's up with OM?
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