The Roller Coaster Keeps on Rolling

[Denver_2010]

Denver, you know more than anyone what you need to do, you just need to DO IT! You mentioned it yourself several times, you are becoming impatient. That is completely understandable, but you need to find the strength to get the patience back.

CS - Thank you man. You are giving me the same advice that I would be giving to you or anyone else under the same circumstances. It is sometimes harder to see the forest from the trees when dealing with my own situation.

I have been very diligent and focused with being patient for almost 5 months now. The past week, however, has really tested my resolve and strength to continue being patient. I have slipped a bit 3 or 4 times with my W and acted the opposite of what I think that she needs now.

You are right. I need to find the strength and the focus to do what has worked for me... patience and time.

Absolutely drop the OM stuff. She needs to process that on her own. Again listen more, say less. You're not going to talk her out of her feelings. Don't be an enemy to them.

Again, you are right. And I realized this on April 1 when I kind of went off on her about him. I haven't brought it up since, but she has. I have just listened and not responded a whole lot. But it is the hurt that her words about OM have left me with that has caused me to lose patience.

No one said this was going to be easy.

Thanks again man.

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Denver